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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[New York’s decanting statute can modernize outdated trusts]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.lojl.com/?p=47432</id>
            <updated>2026-10-30T05:17:37Z</updated>
            <published>2026-11-04T06:16:38Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[The decanting statute in New York gives trustees a practical way to update an old trust outside court. It allows a trustee to “pour” assets from an outdated trust into a new trust with clearer terms, better tax planning or more flexible management provisions.  This tool has become increasingly important as families face changing laws, evolving financial needs and modern…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lojl.com/blog/2026/11/new-yorks-decanting-statute-can-modernize-outdated-trusts/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400;">The decanting statute in New York gives trustees a practical way to update an old trust outside court. It allows a trustee to “pour” assets from an outdated trust into a new trust with clearer terms, better tax planning or more flexible management provisions. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">This tool has become increasingly important as families face changing laws, evolving financial needs and modern asset types.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">When decanting is allowed</span></h2>
<a href="https://codes.findlaw.com/ny/estates-powers-and-trusts-law/ept-sect-10-6-6/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400;">New York permits decanting</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> when a trustee has discretionary authority over distributions. A trustee with full discretion may adjust a range of provisions, while a trustee with limited discretion must follow narrower rules. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Decanting is often used when a trust no longer fits a family’s circumstances. Common triggers include unclear distribution standards, outdated tax language and beneficiary provisions that no longer reflect current relationships. Each situation benefits from a process that updates the trust while keeping its original intent intact.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">What decanting can accomplish</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Decanting can help resolve several practical issues by allowing a trustee to:</span>
<ul>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Improve administrative terms: Add modern provisions that reflect today's financial markets.</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Update tax‑related language: Ensure the trust is optimized for shifting state and federal tax laws.</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Clarify beneficiary rights: Restructure distribution schedules or strengthen safeguards for vulnerable beneficiaries.</span></li>
</ul>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">The improvements decanting offers help the trust function smoothly and reduce the risk of disputes or court involvement.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Limits trustees must follow</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">The statute includes guardrails to prevent misuse. A trustee cannot use decanting to reduce a beneficiary’s vested rights, alter certain fixed interests or violate the trust’s core purpose. Additionally, beneficiaries must receive advance written notice, allowing them to review the changes before they take effect. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">When used correctly, decanting preserves the trust’s intent while improving clarity, flexibility and long‑term stability. Next step: </span><a href="/estate-planning-and-litigation/wills-and-trusts/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400;">speak with a legal professional</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> to learn how to use the decanting statute effectively.</span>]]></content>
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            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of The Law Office of John J. Leonard</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Is your soon-to-be ex-spouse hiding assets?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.lojl.com/blog/2026/10/is-your-soon-to-be-ex-spouse-hiding-assets/" />
            <id>https://www.lojl.com/?p=47428</id>
            <updated>2026-10-15T08:23:16Z</updated>
            <published>2026-10-20T08:22:15Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Divorcing spouses must complete and exchange a sworn statement of net worth under New York law. Transparent financial disclosure ensures fair property division and support. Unfortunately, it’s not uncommon for people to hide assets when going through a divorce.  A few signs can help you identify if your spouse has not included crucial information on the financial disclosure. These include:…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lojl.com/blog/2026/10/is-your-soon-to-be-ex-spouse-hiding-assets/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400;">Divorcing spouses must complete and exchange a sworn statement of net worth under New York law. Transparent financial disclosure ensures fair property division and support. Unfortunately, it’s not uncommon for people to hide assets when going through a divorce. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">A </span><a href="https://www.mysplitifi.com/blog/article/hidden-assets-signs" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400;">few signs</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> can help you identify if your spouse has not included crucial information on the financial disclosure. These include:</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Financial discrepancies</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">If your spouse reports unexplained drops or delays in income, bonuses, commissions or freelance earnings, they may be delaying client billing cycles/invoicing or postponing bonuses/commissions until the divorce is finalized. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">If they own a business and report revenue or profit drops before the divorce, they may be inflating business expenses, pushing client billing or overpaying taxes to lower the company’s net profit on paper.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Document discrepancies </span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Inconsistencies on the documents your spouse submits can help you know whether they are hiding assets. For example, when figures on the sworn Statement of Net Worth do not match those on pay stubs, tax returns or bank statements. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">You should also take action when you notice a document has not been submitted. Or when a submitted document is missing a timeframe. For instance, bank statements with unexplained gaps or missing pages. Your spouse may be concealing large transfers or withdrawals.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Sudden interest in cryptocurrency</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">If your spouse is suddenly interested in cryptocurrency, they may be converting marital funds into hard-to-trace digital assets. You may have heard them ask about cryptocurrency or seen downloaded crypto apps if their device uses an account that’s linked to yours.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Sudden secrecy</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">If your spouse has become secretive or defensive regarding passwords, mail or financial statements, they may be hiding assets.  </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Inaccuracies in financial disclosure during divorce can lead to an unequal distribution of property. If you believe this is happening to you, consider </span><a href="/matrimonial-and-family-law/high-asset-divorce/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400;">legal guidance</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> to protect your interests. </span>]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of The Law Office of John J. Leonard</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Using gifting strategies to reduce New York estate tax exposure]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.lojl.com/?p=47320</id>
            <updated>2026-10-05T08:27:50Z</updated>
            <published>2026-10-08T08:26:59Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[The estate tax structure in New York creates unique challenges for those with assets that approach or exceed the state exclusion amount. Because New York applies a steep estate tax cliff, even modest increases in estate value can trigger significant liability.  Thoughtful lifetime gifting can reduce exposure, but strategies must be implemented with precision and awareness of state and federal…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lojl.com/blog/2026/10/using-gifting-strategies-to-reduce-new-york-estate-tax-exposure/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400;">The estate tax structure in New York creates unique challenges for those with assets that approach or exceed the state exclusion amount. Because New York applies a steep estate tax cliff, even modest increases in estate value can trigger significant liability. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Thoughtful lifetime gifting can reduce exposure, but strategies must be implemented with precision and awareness of state and federal rules.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">The estate tax framework</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">New York's </span><a href="https://cnycf.org/new-york-state-estate-tax-cliff-the-santa-clause/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400;">estate tax cliff</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> can cause an entire estate to become taxable if it surpasses the threshold by more than a small margin, making proactive planning essential. Lifetime gifts can reduce the taxable estate, but they must be evaluated carefully because the state adds back certain gifts made within three years of death.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Strategic lifetime gifting options</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Lifetime gifting offers several ways to reduce estate size, based on the individual’s goals and circumstances:</span>
<ul>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Annual exclusion gifts allow individuals to transfer assets up to the </span><a href="https://www.irs.gov/faqs/interest-dividends-other-types-of-income/gifts-inheritances/gifts-inheritances-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400;">federal exclusion amount</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> to multiple recipients without affecting federal lifetime exemption amounts.</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">529 plan contributions can remove assets from the estate while supporting education planning.</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Gifts of appreciating assets can shift future growth out of the estate, which is particularly useful for those holding investment portfolios or business interests.</span></li>
</ul>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">When used consistently and documented properly, these strategies can be highly effective. They also work best when coordinated with long‑term planning to avoid New York’s three‑year addback rule.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Coordinating gifting with broader planning</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Gifting should be integrated into a comprehensive plan that accounts for liquidity needs, tax implications and long‑term financial goals. This involves considering how gifting affects the overall estate structure, including the potential impact on beneficiaries and the timing of transfers. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">When </span><a href="/estate-planning-and-litigation/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400;">executed professionally</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, estate plan gifting strategies can meaningfully reduce estate tax exposure while preserving flexibility and control over long‑term asset management.</span>]]></content>
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									                    <name>On Behalf of The Law Office of John J. Leonard</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Can a non-biological father get ordered to pay child support?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.lojl.com/blog/2026/09/can-a-non-biological-father-get-ordered-to-pay-child-support/" />
            <id>https://www.lojl.com/?p=47316</id>
            <updated>2026-09-25T06:12:04Z</updated>
            <published>2026-09-30T06:10:32Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Learning that a child raised and loved isn’t biologically yours can shatter you in ways that are hard to put into words. The emotional pain is real and crushing. But the financial implications that follow can make an already painful situation feel impossible. Knowing your legal rights from the start gives you the best chance to protect yourself and make…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lojl.com/blog/2026/09/can-a-non-biological-father-get-ordered-to-pay-child-support/"><![CDATA[Learning that a child raised and loved isn't biologically yours can shatter you in ways that are hard to put into words. The emotional pain is real and crushing. But the financial implications that follow can make an already painful situation feel impossible.

Knowing your legal rights from the start gives you the best chance to protect yourself and make informed decisions.
<h2>When the law treats a man as a father despite biology</h2>
New York courts recognize something called "paternity by estoppel." This legal principle can require you to continue financially supporting a child even when DNA proves there is no biological connection.

New York courts apply this principle when a man:
<ul>
 	<li><a href="https://www.nycourts.gov/help/family-issues-divorce/acknowledgment-paternity" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">Signed a formal document</a> acknowledging the child as his</li>
 	<li>Consistently provided child support over time</li>
 	<li>Held himself out publicly as the child's father</li>
 	<li>Built a parenting relationship with the child over an extended period</li>
</ul>
The law looks at your relationship with the child and the role you've played in their life. If you signed anything legally establishing yourself as the father, then that single signature creates enforceable obligations. Courts view this document as your voluntary acceptance of parental responsibility, making it difficult to walk away later.
<h2>Time limits matter when challenging paternity</h2>
You can't challenge paternity indefinitely. New York law sets strict deadlines on paternity challenges.

Generally, you have 60 days from the date you signed the acknowledgment to rescind it without needing to prove anything beyond your change of heart. After that window closes, courts require clear and convincing proof of fraud, duress or a significant mistake of fact.

Take note that the longer you wait, the harder it becomes to challenge your legal status as the father.
<h2>Why courts put a child's stability above everything else</h2>
Family <a href="https://www.lojl.com/matrimonial-and-family-law/child-custody-and-visitation/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">courts prioritize stability for children</a> above all else. Even when DNA evidence confirms no biological connection, courts may still require financial support if the child has come to depend on you emotionally and financially.

Judges consider how severing your relationship with the child might harm them. If you've acted as a father for years, paying for needs and building memories together, courts often decide that continuing your support serves the child's welfare.

The biological truth, while important, doesn't always override the child's need for consistency and security.
<h2>Establishing paternity early protects your rights</h2>
So, can a man pay child support for a child who isn't biologically his? In New York, yes.

Establishing paternity early protects not only you but everyone involved. Doing this early protects your financial future and gives the child the stability they deserve.

Professional legal guidance helps you make informed decisions during this emotionally charged time, ensuring you protect both your financial future and the child's stability.]]></content>
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            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of The Law Office of John J. Leonard</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Estate planning for real property in multiple states]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.lojl.com/blog/2026/09/estate-planning-for-real-property-in-multiple-states/" />
            <id>https://www.lojl.com/?p=47319</id>
            <updated>2026-09-24T06:35:39Z</updated>
            <published>2026-09-29T06:34:38Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Families who own homes or land in more than one state often face added complexity when planning for future transfers. Since each state has its own probate rules, tax structure and property laws, a plan that works well in one jurisdiction may create delays or added costs in another.  Developing a clear strategy can help reduce administrative burdens and make…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lojl.com/blog/2026/09/estate-planning-for-real-property-in-multiple-states/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400;">Families who own homes or land in more than one state often face added complexity when planning for future transfers. Since each state has its own probate rules, tax structure and property laws, a plan that works well in one jurisdiction may create delays or added costs in another. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Developing a clear strategy can help reduce administrative burdens and make certain that property passes according to your wishes.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Managing multi‑state probate</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">When an owner dies with real property located outside the home state, their estate may need to open </span><a href="https://www.findlaw.com/estate/probate/can-a-will-be-probated-in-another-state.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400;">ancillary probate proceedings</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. This process allows the other state to recognize the primary probate and authorize the transfer of local property. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Ancillary probate can increase timelines and associated expenses, so many individuals look for ways to avoid it. Using planning tools that streamline transfers can reduce the need for court involvement.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Using trusts to simplify transfers</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">A revocable trust is a common method for managing property in multiple states. When real estate is titled in the name of the trust, the property can pass to beneficiaries without going through probate in each jurisdiction. </span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">This approach helps maintain privacy and reduces administrative steps. It also allows the trustee to manage or sell property during incapacity or after death without waiting for court approval.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Coordinating state‑specific requirements</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Each state has its own rules for deeds, homestead protections and property taxes, making it important to ensure that documents comply with local law. Key considerations include:</span>
<ul>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Ensuring deeds are properly recorded</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Confirming property tax obligations</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Reviewing state‑specific transfer rules</span></li>
</ul>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">A </span><a href="/estate-planning-and-litigation/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400;">coordinated estate plan</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> can help prevent delays and unexpected costs. With strong legal guidance, you can create a structure that supports efficient management and smooth transfers across state lines.</span>]]></content>
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	        <entry>
            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of The Law Office of John J. Leonard</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Who do you pick as your trustee?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.lojl.com/blog/2026/09/who-do-you-pick-as-your-trustee/" />
            <id>https://www.lojl.com/?p=47315</id>
            <updated>2026-09-02T10:54:25Z</updated>
            <published>2026-09-07T10:53:42Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[A trust can be added to an estate plan to protect assets from probate, estate taxes and debt collectors. Assets in a trust are managed by a trustee, and it’s critically important to make sure that you choose the right party for that role. Before choosing your trustee, you may want to learn more about what a trustee does and…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lojl.com/blog/2026/09/who-do-you-pick-as-your-trustee/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400;">A trust can be added to an estate plan to protect assets from probate, estate taxes and debt collectors. Assets in a trust are managed by a trustee, and it’s critically important to make sure that you choose the right party for that role.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Before </span><a href="https://www.usbank.com/wealth-management/financial-perspectives/trust-and-estate-planning/how-to-choose-a-trustee-of-a-trust.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400;">choosing your trustee</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, you may want to learn more about what a trustee does and what qualities they should have. Here is what you should know:</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">What does a trustee do?</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">A trustee is typically responsible for managing and distributing funds to a trust’s beneficiaries according to the terms of the trust. A trustee’s fiduciary duty can include monitoring trust investments, avoiding conflicts of interest, disclosing any information about the trust to beneficiaries and generally managing the funds or investments to the best of their ability. Most importantly, a trustee has a fiduciary duty to act in the best interests of the trust and its beneficiaries. </span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">What qualities should a trustee have?</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">A trustee can be a family member, close friend or professional accountant. However, that does not mean just anyone should be the trustee of your trust. You want to choose someone with:</span>
<ul>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The practical skills to handle the administrative details of the trust: Keeping records, paying bills, tracking funds, making investments and meeting deadlines are all part of the job. Your chosen trustee should either have the skill to manage these details or be willing to hire the appropriate advisors, accountants or assistance.</span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The personal qualities you expect: You clearly want your trustee to be honest, impartial and fair, but they should also be good at communication and capable of avoiding conflicts with the beneficiaries. </span></li>
 	<li style="font-weight: 400;"><span style="font-weight: 400;">The time and ability to perform the role: Your chosen trustee should be geographically available and have the time and energy necessary to do the work.</span></li>
</ul>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Sometimes, there is no family member or friend that meets the criteria for a good trustee. In those situations, it may be necessary to hire a professional trustee.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Before drafting a trust, you may want to reach out for </span><a href="/estate-planning-and-litigation/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400;">professional legal guidance</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> to learn about your legal options.</span>]]></content>
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            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of The Law Office of John J. Leonard</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[What should you know about child custody?]]></title>
            <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="https://www.lojl.com/blog/2026/08/what-should-you-know-about-child-custody/" />
            <id>https://www.lojl.com/?p=47311</id>
            <updated>2026-08-19T08:07:54Z</updated>
            <published>2026-08-24T08:07:02Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Divorce can be a very difficult time for parents and children. Parents often struggle to explain to their children what will happen after the divorce. Parents may consider learning more about child custody and discussing it with each other before talking to their children. Understanding the basics of child custody can help parents prepare for the future. There are a…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lojl.com/blog/2026/08/what-should-you-know-about-child-custody/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400;">Divorce can be a very difficult time for parents and children. Parents often struggle to explain to their children what will happen after the divorce. Parents may consider learning more about child custody and discussing it with each other before talking to their children.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Understanding the </span><a href="https://www.metlife.com/stories/legal/child-custody/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400;">basics of child custody</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> can help parents prepare for the future. There are a few terms to understand when learning about child custody. The first two terms are legal and physical custody. Here is what you should know:</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">What are legal and physical custody?</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Legal custody means that a parent can decide how their child is raised. When parents have joint legal custody, they can work together to decide where their child goes to school, for example. Co-parents may have to talk about their child’s medical care, interaction with their community or religious upbringing, for example.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Physical custody refers to where a child lives. Co-parents who share physical custody often have custody schedules. A custody schedule determines where a child lives each day of the week and when parents are responsible for caring for their child.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Sometimes one parent has custody of their child. This is referred to as sole custody. A parent with sole legal custody can decide how their child is raised without input from the other parent. A parent with sole physical custody is responsible for their child’s daily care. The other parent may only have visitation days.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Want to </span><a href="/matrimonial-and-family-law/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400;">learn more about child custody</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">? You can reach out for professional legal guidance to learn more.</span>]]></content>
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            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of The Law Office of John J. Leonard</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Can you ensure a beneficiary makes wise decisions?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.lojl.com/?p=47308</id>
            <updated>2026-08-05T08:51:40Z</updated>
            <published>2026-08-10T08:51:03Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[For wealthy couples who are doing their estate planning, there can be some concerns over how beneficiaries will use their inheritance. Perhaps you are drafting your estate plan in your 50s, and you have a child who is technically a legal adult, but they are still in college. You are worried that, should they suddenly receive a large inheritance, they…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lojl.com/blog/2026/08/can-you-ensure-a-beneficiary-makes-wise-decisions/"><![CDATA[<span style="font-weight: 400;">For wealthy couples who are doing their estate planning, there can be some concerns over how beneficiaries will use their inheritance. Perhaps you are drafting your estate plan in your 50s, and you have a child who is technically a legal adult, but they are still in college. You are worried that, should they suddenly receive a large inheritance, they will not necessarily make wise decisions with that money.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">Fortunately, there are some estate planning steps you can take to guide their decisions and protect them from a financial perspective. Often, rather than leaving them the money in your will, it can be helpful to put that money into a trust.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">A spendthrift trust</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">One example is a </span><a href="https://www.metlife.com/stories/legal/spendthrift-trust/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400;">spendthrift trust</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, which releases the money to the beneficiary over time. They may get a set amount that they can withdraw annually, for example, or they may get access to the funds at a specified age, such as 25 or 30 years old.</span>

<span style="font-weight: 400;">By spreading the money out, you help ensure that they cannot simply spend their whole inheritance quickly. You also ensure that they get the inheritance at an older age, when you may hope that they will make wise decisions, such as buying a home for their family or starting a business.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">A discretionary trust</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">Another option is simply to pick a trustee who is older and who will make wise decisions that are in the beneficiary's best interests. You can let this person </span><a href="https://smartasset.com/estate-planning/discretionary-trust" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"><span style="font-weight: 400;">use their discretion</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, so there are not any strict restrictions on how the money can be spent. But the trustee will make sure that the beneficiary does not waste it or make frivolous purchases.</span>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Setting up a trust</span></h2>
<span style="font-weight: 400;">These are just two examples of how you can use a trust to strengthen your estate plan. If you are interested in doing so, it can help to work with an </span><a href="/estate-planning-and-litigation/wills-and-trusts/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal"><span style="font-weight: 400;">experienced estate planning attorney</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span>

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									                    <name>On Behalf of The Law Office of John J. Leonard</name>
				            </author>
            <title type="html"><![CDATA[Divorced? What happens to frozen embryos?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.lojl.com/?p=47305</id>
            <updated>2026-07-27T09:57:30Z</updated>
            <published>2026-07-30T09:56:56Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[If you and your spouse created frozen embryos through in vitro fertilization (IVF), divorce can raise a difficult question: Who will decide what happens to them? One of you may want to use the embryos while the other does not. In New York, documents signed during IVF can play a central role in resolving this legal dispute. Disputes that can…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lojl.com/blog/2026/07/divorced-what-happens-to-frozen-embryos/"><![CDATA[If you and your spouse created frozen embryos through in vitro fertilization (IVF), divorce can raise a difficult question: Who will decide what happens to them?

One of you may want to use the embryos while the other does not. In New York, documents signed during IVF can play a central role in resolving this legal dispute.
<h2>Disputes that can arise over frozen embryos</h2>
<a href="/matrimonial-and-family-law/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">After divorce</a>, you and your former spouse may disagree about the disposition of frozen embryos. Disputes may involve:
<ul>
 	<li><strong>Future use:</strong> One person may want to use the embryos while the other objects to becoming a genetic parent.</li>
 	<li><strong>Storage:</strong> You may disagree about continued storage or responsibility for related costs.</li>
 	<li><strong>Donation:</strong> One person may support donating the embryos for research or to another intended parent while the other objects.</li>
 	<li><strong>Disposal:</strong> You may disagree about whether the clinic should discard the embryos.</li>
</ul>
A court may examine prior agreements and each party's rights concerning embryo disposition when determining who has future control.
<h2>The role of your IVF agreement</h2>
Fertility clinics often ask intended parents to sign consent forms addressing embryo storage and future use. These documents may become central if you and your former spouse later disagree about the embryos.

Courts have <a href="https://embryo.asu.edu/pages/kass-v-kass-1998" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external">relied on prior written agreements</a> to resolve disputes over frozen embryos. If clinic forms conflict with a separate agreement or contain ambiguous terms, a court may examine the documents to determine which provisions govern.
<h2>Identifying the terms that may apply</h2>
An embryo dispute can involve documents executed at different stages of IVF. Gathering these records and comparing when each was signed can clarify the terms at issue. This review can identify the points of disagreement and legal questions that may require resolution.]]></content>
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            <author>
									                    <name>On Behalf of The Law Office of John J. Leonard</name>
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            <title type="html"><![CDATA[How is property divided in LGBTQIA+ divorces?]]></title>
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            <id>https://www.lojl.com/?p=47302</id>
            <updated>2026-07-20T10:02:21Z</updated>
            <published>2026-07-23T10:00:32Z</published>
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            <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Dividing marital assets is often one of the most significant financial issues in a divorce. If you are ending a same-sex marriage, you may wonder whether the same rules apply to your properties. In New York, the answer is generally yes. Courts use the same property division rules for LGBTQIA+ couples and opposite-sex spouses. Even so, your history as a…]]></summary>
			                <content type="html" xml:base="https://www.lojl.com/blog/2026/07/how-is-property-divided-in-lgbtqia-divorces/"><![CDATA[Dividing marital assets is often one of the most significant financial issues in a divorce. If you are ending a same-sex marriage, you may wonder whether the same rules apply to your properties.

In New York, the answer is generally yes. Courts use the same property division rules for LGBTQIA+ couples and opposite-sex spouses. Even so, your history as a couple can raise unique issues with assets, debts and ownership records.
<h2>Factors that can make property division more complex</h2>
Marital property division follows the rule of equitable distribution. That means a judge<a href="https://www.nycourts.gov/node/60026#:~:text=New%20York%27s%20Equitable%20Distribution%20Law%20recognizes%20marriage%20as%20an%20economic%20as%20well%20as%20a%20social%20partnership.%20The%20law%20requires%20that%20a%20judge%20divide%20property%20as%20fairly%20as%20possible." target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" data-wpel-link="external"> seeks a fair result</a> based on the facts of the marriage rather than automatically splitting everything in half. The court identifies which property is marital and which property is separate.

Several circumstances often need closer attention during an LGBTQIA+ divorce. These may include:
<ul>
 	<li><strong>Marriage timeline:</strong> Since same-sex couples could not legally marry nationwide until 2015, you may need to show when certain assets became part of the marital estate.</li>
 	<li><strong>Years spent living together before marriage:</strong> If you bought a home, built savings or combined finances before you could marry, those facts can affect how a court treats certain property.</li>
 	<li><strong>Older estate planning documents:</strong> Wills, trusts and powers of attorney created before marriage may not reflect later legal changes or your shared intentions.</li>
</ul>
While these issues do not appear in every divorce, they can affect how a court classifies, values and divides marital property.
<h2>Marital property allocation may depend on marriage facts</h2>
No two divorces involve the same financial picture. The length of the marriage, the date each asset was acquired and the way each spouse used the property often shape the final result.

Each case also involves different records and legal concerns. Understanding how equitable distribution applies to your finances can help you <a href="https://www.lojl.com/matrimonial-and-family-law/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-wpel-link="internal">prepare for the process.</a> Legal guidance can also clarify how a court will likely classify property and which facts may carry the most weight.]]></content>
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